Men and the Domme

This is an article created for men who don’t seem to understand what a Domme is or how to interact with a dominant female.

Dominant – (noun/thing) a trait or gene

Domme – (noun/person)a female dominatrix

I am dominant by nature. It’s in my genes. It’s who I am. I do not sit on the sidelines and let life happen. I push through and create it. Well, moreseo when there’s no COVID.

I am a Domme by choice, in second life AND real life. It’s how I occasionally like to represent myself. Think of it as a persona, a mindset. It’s like any job where you are front and center and people are looking to you for direction.

Some Dommes are always barking orders, attempting to maintain their level of control. Usually just trying to scare people with intimidating tactics to prove they are the superior. The thing about that which makes me laugh the most is that if you have to tell someone you’re a Domme, you’re not very good at it. The quiet Doms/Dommes are the ones to look for if you’re serious about finding a real one. They don’t have to tell everyone they’re dominant because people can tell.

Now let’s throw escort into the mix. Escort is a word that has soooo many meanings depending on the person you’re talking to. Why? Because everyone has different kinks they have and hiring someone who won’t talk about it is the specialty of the escort. Escorts don’t judge. Many have limits as to what they will do. Sometimes those limits can be bought.

Pay attention to this next part! If you have not hired me as an Escort or Domme, then don’t expect to chat with either an escort or a Domme. Just a lady who expects to be treated with courtesy and respect and keep your hands to yourself.

So how do you interact with a Domme? Just like any other person. Courtesy and respect. If you meet a Domme who demands anything of you, she’s a fake. Submissives are the only ones in control of their submission and they choose who to give it to. If a Domme is barking orders and there’s no one to hear, is she still a Domme? No.

Domme doesn’t mean “man hater”. There are those that do. That doesn’t make her a domme. Dommes must be dominant, it can’t be faked. I’m sure you all know women who just bark orders. That doesn’t make her a Domme or dominant. It makes her a nagging, self centered bitch.


living the second life.

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